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France has been a big part of our lives for over twenty years. We
holidayed here as a couple, then as a family, and have lived here since 2004,
and we love it. We often get asked why we moved here and the French are as
interested in the answer as are our friends and family. Everyone has their own
reasons for chasing the dream and for us it was about having more time to spend
together as a family and not having the financial pressures we had in the UK.
It was not a rash decision after a bottle of French wine whilst watching one of
the many UK TV programmes about Brits moving to the sun; it was something we
thought carefully about for at least three years before making the move.
I think planning is key for a move to be successful and I still have the
old spreadsheets comparing living costs and income in UK and France (circa
2004), including our old weekly UK food shop that we had carefully converted
into Euros - once an accountant always an accountant. I often get asked for
advice from people thinking of moving here, so here is a list of things to
consider. Please note this is by no means an exhaustive list, just my opinion
based on our experience.
• Learn the language; you
will get so much more out of your new life if you can communicate in French. We
have found Coffee Break French and One Thing in a French Day very helpful.
• Research your living
costs; don’t forget personal bank accounts are not free like in the UK, wine
may be cheap, but food can be pricey. It gets very cold here in winter and
heating costs are likely to be as high or higher than in the UK; old French
houses can be draughty and take quite a bit of heating.
• Think about your income;
the capital from selling your UK home will not go nearly as far as you think
and in rural France especially, finding work will not be easy.
• If you want to run your
own business, you will pay about 40% in tax/social charges no matter what level
your earnings are, and the French system can be a complex one to understand.
• When deciding where you
want to live; in the countryside or a town, remember unless you are in a large
town or very popular area like the Riviera, France closes over winter. Also,
not all French villages are equal in terms of amenities and social life.
• Think very carefully about
your current social life/time spent with your family and friends, and how you
would cope without seeing them regularly.
• Lots of flights to the UK
are summer only, so it is important to consider how long will it take you to
drive back in an emergency.
• The healthcare system is
different to the UK as you must pay for each appointment before being
reimbursed, and a ‘top up’ health insurance policy is advisable. If you are not
‘in’ the system, then you will get nothing reimbursed.
• Children will pick up the
language fairly quickly at school, but for some, Ed included, it can be
difficult to begin with and can take quite some time before they are totally
happy to speak French.
We still love France, even if some of her ways can be very frustrating,
but nothing in life is perfect and living here is not one long holiday. We
have, just about, achieved our goal in that we do spend a lot more time
together as a family. Without a mortgage and with an orchard, veggie garden and
a frugal attitude to food, our expenses per month are very low, which is just
as well as so is our monthly income! Following the UK Brexit referendum our
future is less certain, but whatever happens we followed our dream and gave it
our best shot.
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Nice to read your level-headed comments, me and my girlfriend are on year one of our three year plan to do just as you have done and feel that we are not being overly 'romantic' about the whole thing. Good luck to you and your family, we are in the south east of England and long to move to France for a simpler life.
ReplyDeleteThank you. Good luck with your planning and hopefully one day your move!
DeleteWe too moved from the south east of England for a simpler life in France and 8 and a half years later I can tell you we have no regrets! I would like to echo the advice given on this page though. They are all important points to fully understand and to discuss at length before taking the plunge. If you haven't already, you might like to read my husband's book : A la Mod by Ian Moore which Jacqui has reviewed on here and which recounts amongst other things our move from West Sussex to rural France...best of luck with your own exciting plans!
ReplyDeleteI agree, Natalie, the more you can read, plan and discuss the easier the move should be. Most 'move to France' books do try show the difficulties as well as the good times and it is important to remember 'moving' is not the same as one long holiday.
DeleteGood to find your blog and this page in particular.
ReplyDeleteWe have been living in New Zealand for the past 10 years but plan to retire to South West France in 2015.
I've been reading, reading, reading and zooming in and out of little towns and villages on Google Maps.
I've also found several very helpful contacts on Facebook. In fact someone there suggested this page.
We have spent time in France, have always loved the culture and, after living in NZ, it will be so close to home.
Last night I booked flights for next April and plan to spend a few days in Paris and then down to Poitue, Limousin, Deux Sevres to get a feel for the place we would like to settle.
I am hoping that with no mortgage, state pension and two small occupational pensions we will be able to live plainly and comfortably.
Once again than k you for your blog
Best of luck with the planning and moving. Your biggest threat is likely to be currency fluctuations as that can make a big difference. We also find our energy costs to be quite high, but our house here is bigger than the one we had in the UK and older, so not as energy efficient! Hope you have a good trip over.
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